Reading and Self-Development: Questions, Answered

Short, direct answers to the questions student-athletes ask about training, school, recovery and pressure. Each answer is reviewed by Rhema Adelaja.

How Do I Find a Mentor as a Student-Athlete?

Leadership and Life Balance

Pick one thing you need help with. List three people a few steps ahead of you: a coach, a teacher, an older athlete. Ask one of them for a short conversation with one clear question. Do one thing they suggest, then tell them how it went.

How Do I Feel Confident in an Interview or a Scholarship Panel?

Confidence and Pressure

An interview is a pressure moment, so treat it like one. Pressure gets smaller when the task gets specific. Set a process goal, write a short introduction, prepare three stories, and practise out loud. Use a Gear Shift before you walk in. Then review what you learned.

How do I lead my team if I am not the captain?

Leadership and Life Balance

I think of leadership as practical: self-management, asking for help, having a difficult conversation well, holding standards respectfully, and following through after feedback. None of that needs a title. Start with two questions: who depends on you doing your part on time, and who do you depend on?

How do I keep my standard when nobody is watching?

Leadership and Life Balance

In training someone is always checking: your coach, the clock, your teammates. When you study, nobody is. Build an internal standard for those hours that is as high as the one your coach enforces.

Answers are general information, not professional advice.